1. Get busy as a bee
Like they say that an empty mind is a devils workshop. The more free time you have in your hands the more likely you are bound to think about your past relationship and feel sad about it. Whirl up your social calendar and your time table so that you have no time to breathe. Focus on some ignored aspects of your life that had taken a back seat during your romantic episode. Like you can now spend more time with family, catch your favourite soccer games on television, learn a foreign language or complete your list of pending tasks.
2. Make more friendsAs a single don’t be in a rush to find a partner again. Take your time and mingle with other singles and make more friends. Hangout with new friends and exchange light banter with them to pep up yourself. However do not wear your heart on your sleeve and get ready for another relationship too soon. Also don’t bore your new friends with the romantic tales of your ex.
3. Scrap away old memories
Don’t get into the trap of curating your romantic memories as this would not let you get out of your grief period.
If need be perform a ritual of burning away all the things that remind you of you ex. You can take the help of your best friends to make it more fun and less traumatic.
4. Cut off communication
Seeing the posts of your ex on face book or any other social media website or chat may tempt you to open a conversation of having a chat with him or her. It’s advised to remove him or her from your social media till you are very sure you are over that person.
5. Work on yourselfEvery failed relationship brings a series of lessons for you. Make sure you learn from your mistakes instead of repeating them in your next relationship. Take this time to work on yourself and build yourself!
You may have had a broken heart but your soul is intact. Apart from the above ways to get over your ex it is important to be a good person and forgive your ex if you are holding any grudge against him or her. The sooner you can forgive your ex the sooner you can forget about them!